6/16/07
My next blog
My next blog is about relationships and how to know when you are settling or if you consider that special person to be the "one"? I want to know if half the relationships we are getting in are out of convience? Or if they are around at the right time? Or because we find someone one to be so amazing we feel like we need to be with them. I need to know what you think... leave comments...
6/12/07
What we all should know...
Hi, Pretty Lady! THIS IS A TOAST.... 2 US...FOR THE MEN WHO HAVE US,THE LOSERS WHO HAD US, AND THE LUCKY PEOPLE WHO WILL MEET US!!
- A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...Enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own,even if she never wants to or needs to...
- A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...Something perfect to wear if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...
- A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..A youth she's content to leave behind....
- A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...A past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age....
- A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
- AWOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...One friend who always makes herlaugh... and one who lets her cry...
- A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....A good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...
- A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...Eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal,that will make her guests feel honored...
- A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...A feeling of control over her destiny...
- EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...How to fall in love without losing herself..
- EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...how to quit a job, break up with a lover,and confront a friend without ruining the friendship...
- EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...When to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...
- EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...That she can't change the length of her calves,the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..
- EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...that her childhood may not have been perfect..but it's over...
- EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...What she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
- EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...How to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...
- EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW..whom she can trust, whom she can't,and why she shouldn't take it personally...
- EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...Where to go...be it to her best friend's kitchen table...or a charming inn in the woods...when her soul needs soothing...
- EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...What she can and can't accomplish in a day...a month...and a year...
6/11/07
Karmic Konnection...
Another round of dating, this one at the top of the poll. That one night on Cl did me good. I went on a first date with a Jersey Boy. Jersey is 29, works in TV and very cute. Ya for me, my pair and spare are building! After hanging out with beer and wings, we played a terrible-yet-fun games of pool and chilled out with decaf coffee at Starbucks. While conversing on several different topics (he was super easy to talk to) he mentioned relationship karma, and how his karma took a negative turn at the end of his last relationship, and his next relationship. His karmic connection came full circle in a very short amount of time. With all of the news going on this week, I am really starting to think about karma, and how it affects each and everyone of us.
How many of us were jumping for joy when Paris Hilton went to jail, not only the first, but also the second time around? Even after hearing that she was literally sobbing, I could not help but feel like she deserved it, and I don't even know her. Could all that table top dancing, miscellaneous drug using and sleeping around land her in karma jail? Or was she just another who broke the law and had to serve time? In all honesty, she looks like shes got it bad right now. A lil secret, I felt a tiny bit sorry for her. Is her karma full circling?
If there is a such thing as karma, then when you get your fair share of pay back, do you know why? I mean, what is the use of Karma if you do not realize that it is happening, then, it is not karma, is it just bad luck? For example, a boy cheats on his girlfriend, makes her feel like shit, hurts her, she will never trust again, he breaks up with her, and then his next girlfriend does the exact same thing. If he sits down and thinks, "oh my God I deserve this, I did the same thing to my ex" then, I can see it as karma. He learned a lesson, he knows how it feels. If on the other hand, he just thinks the new girl is a bitch, and moves on has he been hit by karma? Has he learned his lesson? If not then is it still karma? Does karma go hand in hand with lesson learning or is it just an experience?
I for one believe that when "karma" itself is occurring, it comes in a cute package of payback, with a side of guilt and a hint of realization. My main theory is that the longer it takes for the karma to come around, the worse the person is. Genuinely good people probably get the round of karma and realize it quickly, evil people well, they are still waiting or are going to get a big burst of bad karma, maybe, they really will be dung beetles in the end. Or maybe, since I brought up good and evil, Hell is the real bad karma.
Now... to my dating life, lets line up all the men I have mentioned, and some I have not, because these next two weeks I am going to be picking my pair and spare. Though over time I may be dropping and adding. ..
Jersey Boy- 6'1, athletic as hell, All-American, blue eyes, dirty blond hair. Loves to mountain bike, works in TV ( i love TV hello!) rents a house in Jersey, nice.
Volley Boy- You have never heard of him, plays on a volleyball team in the summer, a teacher, very cool personality, met on cl, keeps in touch on the weekend, bouncer at clubs on the weekend, 35, 5'10 athletic, may be too old.
Detroit- out of the picture, asshole, asshole, asshole emotionally unavailable, hope he gets electrocuted lol.
Pakistani Boy- cool, most likely to never date, too emotional, very nice consistent. 5'8, athletic, a little heavier, funny, speaks several languages.
Asian American - I don't think I have ever mentioned him, very smart, Asian, 5'8 thin, have not officially gone out, we will meet up this week.
Neighbor- very nice, questionably gay, we are hanging out this week, will keep you updated on him...
These are what I have to pick from, I must pick three, this is harder then I thought. I am also heading to a speed dating event (thanks to my roommate) in a couple of weeks, so, some people may change. I have been keeping up with the rules, seriously I am not calling anyone, I have been staying focused, more boys make it a hell of a lot easier to not obsess over one.
How many of us were jumping for joy when Paris Hilton went to jail, not only the first, but also the second time around? Even after hearing that she was literally sobbing, I could not help but feel like she deserved it, and I don't even know her. Could all that table top dancing, miscellaneous drug using and sleeping around land her in karma jail? Or was she just another who broke the law and had to serve time? In all honesty, she looks like shes got it bad right now. A lil secret, I felt a tiny bit sorry for her. Is her karma full circling?
If there is a such thing as karma, then when you get your fair share of pay back, do you know why? I mean, what is the use of Karma if you do not realize that it is happening, then, it is not karma, is it just bad luck? For example, a boy cheats on his girlfriend, makes her feel like shit, hurts her, she will never trust again, he breaks up with her, and then his next girlfriend does the exact same thing. If he sits down and thinks, "oh my God I deserve this, I did the same thing to my ex" then, I can see it as karma. He learned a lesson, he knows how it feels. If on the other hand, he just thinks the new girl is a bitch, and moves on has he been hit by karma? Has he learned his lesson? If not then is it still karma? Does karma go hand in hand with lesson learning or is it just an experience?
I for one believe that when "karma" itself is occurring, it comes in a cute package of payback, with a side of guilt and a hint of realization. My main theory is that the longer it takes for the karma to come around, the worse the person is. Genuinely good people probably get the round of karma and realize it quickly, evil people well, they are still waiting or are going to get a big burst of bad karma, maybe, they really will be dung beetles in the end. Or maybe, since I brought up good and evil, Hell is the real bad karma.
Now... to my dating life, lets line up all the men I have mentioned, and some I have not, because these next two weeks I am going to be picking my pair and spare. Though over time I may be dropping and adding. ..
Jersey Boy- 6'1, athletic as hell, All-American, blue eyes, dirty blond hair. Loves to mountain bike, works in TV ( i love TV hello!) rents a house in Jersey, nice.
Volley Boy- You have never heard of him, plays on a volleyball team in the summer, a teacher, very cool personality, met on cl, keeps in touch on the weekend, bouncer at clubs on the weekend, 35, 5'10 athletic, may be too old.
Detroit- out of the picture, asshole, asshole, asshole emotionally unavailable, hope he gets electrocuted lol.
Pakistani Boy- cool, most likely to never date, too emotional, very nice consistent. 5'8, athletic, a little heavier, funny, speaks several languages.
Asian American - I don't think I have ever mentioned him, very smart, Asian, 5'8 thin, have not officially gone out, we will meet up this week.
Neighbor- very nice, questionably gay, we are hanging out this week, will keep you updated on him...
These are what I have to pick from, I must pick three, this is harder then I thought. I am also heading to a speed dating event (thanks to my roommate) in a couple of weeks, so, some people may change. I have been keeping up with the rules, seriously I am not calling anyone, I have been staying focused, more boys make it a hell of a lot easier to not obsess over one.
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